To speak, or not to speak #iamnoangel

It can either be an exciting addition to a fun night, or an awkward moment that is either quickly ignored or ruins an evening. Dirty talk. Urban dictionary describes this as "talking with another person, describing mutual sexual activity, with the aim of causing sexual arousal." In my experience, both personal and from talking to friends, I think that this can either be a huge success or a huge flop.

If you want to hear it, there can be nothing sexier than someone telling you just how much they like what you're doing, and exactly what they want you to do. Even if the actual talking isn't what you enjoy, it gives you a better idea of what your partner is enjoying, so you can make the whole experience the best it can be. If you don't like it, dirty talk can just kill any moment that was going. Some people like to talk but don't want to listen to someone else, while some people are the exact opposite, they want to be talked to but can't bring it up in themselves to talk dirty.

Unless you are a particularly outgoing and open person, talking dirty would either mean that you are taking off the mask that you wear all day, or putting on a mask for someone else's needs. Applause to those who don't fit into this generalization. For everyone else, like with internet use, how healthy is it to be using a mask to represent yourself? How much are we all willing to sacrifice for society's approval, and visa versa, how much will we give up for a partner?

Dirty Talk by Wynter Gordon

xoxo,

Sean Jesse Parker